HOW TO PLAN

THE PERFECT SURPRISE PROPOSAL

Because love (and surprises!) deserve a little extra sparkle.

Pop the Champagne!

So, you’ve found the one—cue all the happy tears, heart flutters, and daydreams of your forever together. Now comes the big moment: planning a surprise proposal that’s as magical as your love story. Feeling nervous? Don’t worry—I’m here to help you pull off the perfect “YES!” moment with style, sweetness, and maybe even a hidden photographer.

Let’s dive into how to plan a surprise proposal that will have your partner grinning from ear to ear (and retelling the story for the rest of your lives)!

Start With The Vibe

Before you get into the nitty-gritty, ask yourself: what kind of moment would make them swoon?

Romantic & intimate? Think candlelight dinner at home or a sunset stroll in your favorite park.
Adventurous & spontaneous? Maybe a hike to a scenic overlook or a surprise weekend getaway.
Public & celebratory? Perhaps during a birthday toast, at a concert, or with all your family and friends in on the fun!

You know your partner best—this is about them, after all!

HAPPILY
EVER
AFTER

Operation: Secret Planning

This is where the real fun begins. Once you’ve picked your scene, it’s time to get sneaky (in the most loving way, of course):

Enlist the help of a few trusted friends or family members (especially if you need help with logistics or distraction).
Choose the date wisely—avoid any super-stressful days or jam-packed weekends.
Plan the excuse that gets them to the location. Think: “Let’s go out for a fancy dinner,” or “Can you help me take a few pics for work?”

Pro tip: if you’re hiring a photographer (do it!), loop them in early so they can scout the location and help with timing.

The Ring (!!!!)

We can’t forget the sparkler! Whether it’s a family heirloom, something you picked out together, or a total surprise, make sure:

It’s tucked somewhere safe (and invisible) during the big moment.
You’re confident in their ring size—sneaky borrowing or asking a friend can work wonders.
You have a backup plan in case nerves make you fumble. (Hey, it happens.)

Capture The Moment

Trust me, you’re both going to be floating on cloud nine, and the look on their face? Priceless.

Hire a stealthy photographer who knows how to be in the right spot at the right time (we’re talking bushes, behind trees, paparazzi-level stealth).
Let them know your timeline and cues: where you’ll be, which knee you’re dropping to, when to pop out for post-proposal portraits.

Bonus: you’ll have dreamy, candid keepsakes to relive the joy forever.

Add a Personal Touch

This is your love story—make it yours.

Write a short love letter to read before you propose
Use a favorite song or inside joke
Include your pet (with a cute “Will you marry my human?” sign!)
Have friends and family surprise you afterward for a mini celebration

It doesn’t have to be extravagant—it just has to be you.

After the “Yes!”

Cue the happy dance and the champagne! After some snapshots of you two, it is time to enjoy! Whether you head off for a dinner reservation, a cozy night in, or a spontaneous celebration, don’t forget to take a moment to just be together.

Let it sink in. You’re engaged. This is the beginning of forever.

Love is in the air… and so is a very sparkly YES!

A surprise proposal is about so much more than the perfect setting or the Pinterest-worthy photos (though we’re big fans of both). It’s about creating a moment full of love, excitement, and authenticity—something you’ll both treasure for the rest of your lives. So take a deep breath, trust your plan, and get ready to pop the question like a pro.